massachusetts women for obama during the election. brian: so, in that final lap of life, you are sitting there wondering about your terminal illness, they will be a panel -- many people are saying this is not true -- they are going to say enough of the operations, take some medication. or another medication, get this operation. is it a death panel? the president says they are not, that they are end of life consultants. is that not supposed to be your family? by the way, mom, dad, a sister, brother, this is best for you? steve: a lot of times the family will sit down with your doctor. mr. obama was talking a bit about that.